Weddings

Well, it is now 9 months until my wedding. Actually, I won't really be able to do anything in December since I'll be graduating, then christmas and since im getting married at the beginning of March, that doesn't count either so... it is really like 7 months until my wedding. That really freaks me out. I had no idea there was so much involved in planning a wedding. How am I supposed to know what songs I want played during the ceremony? or if I want a trumpet player or a violinist? I mean, does it really matter? Can't I just have a standard ceremony? Not only that but then flowers, cakes, decorations, party favors for guest... isn't the reception enough without having to then by something for the guests? I could really care less about the cakes. I don't even like cake. All that sugar makes my teeth hurt. I'm only getting one for the pictures. My biggest concerns are the Reception hall, the bar and the honeymoon. Honeymoons, by the way, are not as easy to plan as one would expect. Sure, it's easy to say "oh lets go to the Virgin Islands" (Which, by the way, is where I really want to go) But then it's which island to chose, St. Thomas, St. John, St. Croix, St. Kitts and on and on? Then you have to look up the weather because you don't want to be there in the rainy season and then you want to make sure your hotel is all inclusive and blah blah. Its very frustrating. If I had the extra money I would go to a travel agent but, obviously, I don't. Well if anyone has any interesting ideas on how to make wedding planning easier, please, I am all ears.